May 4, 20205 yr 56 minutes ago, BFit said: I can't deny this, my apartment definitely looked like a single guys apartment when I met my wife. But I was also 28 when I met her and decorated it when I was 25. Plus when I told her I lived above a bar, her expectations where already low I had the single guys pad too. Big leather couches, big screen tv, all 3 game systems. Still had contractor white walls. I was 35 or 36
May 4, 20205 yr 8 minutes ago, paco said: I had the single guys pad too. Big leather couches, big screen tv, all 3 game systems. Still had contractor white walls. I was 35 or 36 I mean... it was a brand new downtown loft in an exclusive building.. it's a little different It needed a paint job and some smaller furniture but it was well put together.
May 4, 20205 yr when paco peers into your soul with those gorgeous eyes of his, room decor is the last thing on your mind....or so i've heard.
May 4, 20205 yr He's good to me and our doggies, that's the most important. And he basically gets me whatever I want, so what's not to love
May 4, 20205 yr 1 hour ago, binkybink77 said: This is a lot of words. I just asked if you were interested in a long term relationship eventually. I just assumed your question was a continuation of your larger inquiries as a whole 1 hour ago, BFit said: I can't deny this, my apartment definitely looked like a single guys apartment when I met my wife. But I was also 28 when I met her and decorated it when I was 25. Plus when I told her I lived above a bar, her expectations where already low see! bfit is living the dream! 11 minutes ago, paco said: I had the single guys pad too. Big leather couches, big screen tv, all 3 game systems. Still had contractor white walls. I was 35 or 36 I know most people (who aren't @probably ) are just busting balls and having fun, because that's what we do here. There are tons of single dudes in my age range who meet some or many of the following: are slobs, live with roommates, live at home, live in some ghetto/rundown neighborhood, have some kind of substance abuse problem (drugs, alcohol, etc.), driving some 15 year old falling apart vehicle that they can still struggle to afford, are working some meaningless job making like $9 an hour, no education/prospects in life, credit score in the 500s, drowning in debt, you name it. Those dudes have issues/faults/circumstances that will take YEARS AND YEARS to fix/improve, if at all/ever. Yet those dudes get chicks, get multiple chicks, get married, etc. Everything you guys have listed (wall colors, TV mounting, decorations, etc.) are ALL things that could literally be "fixed" within a week from now (maybe longer since its Coronavirus and I can't just lazily hire painters/contractors to come into my house right now and do work for me). Literally it could all be changed in a blink of an eye. Women are constantly with dudes that are slobs, pieces of ish, abusive, cheat on them, you name it. It's not like women (on the whole) have these really high or unattainable standards compared to men. Women care about what they find physically attractive. I'm never gonna be 6'2' (shouts to my guy bung!) and I'm never going to have some sweet hairline (shouts to my guy hunt!), so the only real thing that's in my control is how fit/in-shape I am, and I fully realize I am actively lazy in that department!
May 4, 20205 yr 4 minutes ago, Agent23 said: I just assumed your question was a continuation of your larger inquiries as a whole see! bfit is living the dream! I know most people (who aren't @probably ) are just busting balls and having fun, because that's what we do here. There are tons of single dudes in my age range who meet some or many of the following: are slobs, live with roommates, live at home, live in some ghetto/rundown neighborhood, have some kind of substance abuse problem (drugs, alcohol, etc.), driving some 15 year old falling apart vehicle that they can still struggle to afford, are working some meaningless job making like $9 an hour, no education/prospects in life, credit score in the 500s, drowning in debt, you name it. Those dudes have issues/faults/circumstances that will take YEARS AND YEARS to fix/improve, if at all/ever. Yet those dudes get chicks, get multiple chicks, get married, etc. Everything you guys have listed (wall colors, TV mounting, decorations, etc.) are ALL things that could literally be "fixed" within a week from now (maybe longer since its Coronavirus and I can't just lazily hire painters/contractors to come into my house right now and do work for me). Literally it could all be changed in a blink of an eye. Women are constantly with dudes that are slobs, pieces of ish, abusive, cheat on them, you name it. It's not like women (on the whole) have these really high or unattainable standards compared to men. Women care about what they find physically attractive. I'm never gonna be 6'2' (shouts to my guy bung!) and I'm never going to have some sweet hairline (shouts to my guy hunt!), so the only real thing that's in my control is how fit/in-shape I am, and I fully realize I am actively lazy in that department! Definitely just busting balls here - it's your money dude, spend it however you want.
May 4, 20205 yr 19 minutes ago, Agent23 said: I just assumed your question was a continuation of your larger inquiries as a whole see! bfit is living the dream! I know most people (who aren't @probably ) are just busting balls and having fun, because that's what we do here. There are tons of single dudes in my age range who meet some or many of the following: are slobs, live with roommates, live at home, live in some ghetto/rundown neighborhood, have some kind of substance abuse problem (drugs, alcohol, etc.), driving some 15 year old falling apart vehicle that they can still struggle to afford, are working some meaningless job making like $9 an hour, no education/prospects in life, credit score in the 500s, drowning in debt, you name it. Those dudes have issues/faults/circumstances that will take YEARS AND YEARS to fix/improve, if at all/ever. Yet those dudes get chicks, get multiple chicks, get married, etc. Everything you guys have listed (wall colors, TV mounting, decorations, etc.) are ALL things that could literally be "fixed" within a week from now (maybe longer since its Coronavirus and I can't just lazily hire painters/contractors to come into my house right now and do work for me). Literally it could all be changed in a blink of an eye. Women are constantly with dudes that are slobs, pieces of ish, abusive, cheat on them, you name it. It's not like women (on the whole) have these really high or unattainable standards compared to men. Women care about what they find physically attractive. I'm never gonna be 6'2' (shouts to my guy bung!) and I'm never going to have some sweet hairline (shouts to my guy hunt!), so the only real thing that's in my control is how fit/in-shape I am, and I fully realize I am actively lazy in that department! You pretty much just have to not be a gameshowfan.
May 4, 20205 yr 30 minutes ago, Agent23 said: I know most people (who aren't @probably ) are just busting balls and having fun, because that's what we do here. There are tons of single dudes in my age range who meet some or many of the following: are slobs, live with roommates, live at home, live in some ghetto/rundown neighborhood, have some kind of substance abuse problem (drugs, alcohol, etc.), driving some 15 year old falling apart vehicle that they can still struggle to afford, are working some meaningless job making like $9 an hour, no education/prospects in life, credit score in the 500s, drowning in debt, you name it. Those dudes have issues/faults/circumstances that will take YEARS AND YEARS to fix/improve, if at all/ever. Yet those dudes get chicks, get multiple chicks, get married, etc. Everything you guys have listed (wall colors, TV mounting, decorations, etc.) are ALL things that could literally be "fixed" within a week from now (maybe longer since its Coronavirus and I can't just lazily hire painters/contractors to come into my house right now and do work for me). Literally it could all be changed in a blink of an eye. Women are constantly with dudes that are slobs, pieces of ish, abusive, cheat on them, you name it. It's not like women (on the whole) have these really high or unattainable standards compared to men. Women care about what they find physically attractive. I'm never gonna be 6'2' (shouts to my guy bung!) and I'm never going to have some sweet hairline (shouts to my guy hunt!), so the only real thing that's in my control is how fit/in-shape I am, and I fully realize I am actively lazy in that department! That was a perfect reply to my post
May 4, 20205 yr 27 minutes ago, NCTANK said: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AcP8hwplqrM the murder hornet awaits ADORABLE!
May 4, 20205 yr 1 hour ago, NCTANK said: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AcP8hwplqrM the murder hornet awaits WTF. Those things are horrifying. I read somewhere that if in danger or pissed off, they release some kind of scent or pheremones so all of their gigantic hornet friends can find them instantly and attack.
May 4, 20205 yr doesnt scare me. just another hoax or danger sent by China to get Trump out of office.
May 4, 20205 yr This poor guy had to travel to Japan to find one to get stung by. If he had just waited like 2 years he coulda done it here.
May 4, 20205 yr 13 minutes ago, hputenis said: WTF. Those things are horrifying. I read somewhere that if in danger or pissed off, they release some kind of scent or pheremones so all of their gigantic hornet friends can find them instantly and attack. i’m already dealing with those efen fire ants and more recently moles. but murder hornets?
May 4, 20205 yr 1 minute ago, NCTANK said: i’m already dealing with those efen fire ants and more recently moles. but murder hornets? We have fire ants everywhere in our front and back yard. I stepped on one of their hills in our front yard yesterday unknowingly, and all of a sudden it felt like someone injected my ankle with needles. I looked down, and there were dozens of them swarming me. My left ankle this morning looks like Alex Smith's leg injury.
May 4, 20205 yr 1 minute ago, hputenis said: We have fire ants everywhere in our front and back yard. I stepped on one of their hills in our front yard yesterday unknowingly, and all of a sudden it felt like someone injected my ankle with needles. I looked down, and there were dozens of them swarming me. My left ankle this morning looks like Alex Smith's leg injury. the devils children
May 4, 20205 yr 12 minutes ago, mikemack8 said: I've seen those asian hornets around my place before - they're huge. You sure it was that and not a cicada killer?
May 4, 20205 yr 49 minutes ago, hputenis said: WTF. Those things are horrifying. I read somewhere that if in danger or pissed off, they release some kind of scent or pheremones so all of their gigantic hornet friends can find them instantly and attack. most hornets/bees already do that.
May 4, 20205 yr 4 hours ago, Agent23 said: we had a guy get married living above a bar scamming their wifi. there a millions and millions of white trash people married everywhere you look (not saying I want a white trash wife ) You guys make it seem like there is one and only one blueprint in life. How's your blueprint working out?
May 4, 20205 yr 1 minute ago, probably said: How's your blueprint working out? Other than not being settled down with someone (which you seem to consider a "failure" in life), and having some pounds to lose that I'm just being stubbornly lazy about, literally everything else in my life is phenomenal shape. As I mentioned in one of my previous (lengthy) posts: it's possible to be dating someone a month from now. What's not possible for people to do overnight is get an education, vastly increase their earnings/station in life, go from struggling to pay rent to having their own place, etc. Hell, all throughout my 20s all you were telling guys like me, Mach, bfit, etc. was to NOT settle down or even think about getting married until our 30s... even then I think you said mid-30s. Yet when I didn't settle down with someone in my late-20s to be married by early-to-mid 30s, I've failed? You contradict your own advice.
May 4, 20205 yr We already have Tarantula Hawks that venture through our yard looking for Trap Door spiders. They have the second most painful sting in the world. They paralyze tarantula and inject eggs into them. The tarantula remains alive and then the baby tarantula hawks eat their way out.
May 4, 20205 yr 4 minutes ago, Agent23 said: Other than not being settled down with someone (which you seem to consider a "failure" in life), and having some pounds to lose that I'm just being stubbornly lazy about, literally everything else in my life is phenomenal shape. As I mentioned in one of my previous (lengthy) posts: it's possible to be dating someone a month from now. What's not possible for people to do overnight is get an education, vastly increase their earnings/station in life, go from struggling to pay rent to having their own place, etc. Hell, all throughout my 20s all you were telling guys like me, Mach, bfit, etc. was to NOT settle down or even think about getting married until our 30s... even then I think you said mid-30s. Yet when I didn't settle down with someone in my late-20s to be married by early-to-mid 30s, I've failed? You contradict your own advice. I think considering your parental situation you did well to go to college and build a career....but I think you are naive in a lot of respects. Like painting a house you are trying to sell Golden State Warrior colors. Just trying to clue you in.
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